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2020年閏四月送豬腳替父母添福壽

Posted On By 玉 女

【記者 JAZ 台中 報導】

2020庚子鼠年恰逢農曆閏四月,民俗有「父母逢閏年減壽」,出嫁女兒需準備豬腳麵線為父母補運的習俗,為什麼是由出嫁的女兒負責呢?傳統習俗認為,嫁出去的女兒如潑出去的水,就是別人家的媳婦了,孝順公婆是應該的,而回家照顧爸媽則是多出來的,而閏月也是多出來的月份,所以應由已婚的女兒應該在閏月來臨前,提豬腳麵線回家幫父母添壽。也有些地方習俗要為父母長輩做閏月鞋襪、送閏月餅,祈求父母長壽,免於災難降臨。長輩逢閏年減壽,遇上閏月要添壽,台語有這句話「三年一閏、好壞照輪」,意思是好運有盡頭,壞運當然也有結束的時候。同時也趁機回家看看久違的父母,略盡孝心。若父母都不在了,則以兄嫂代替。

今年想要替父母親添福添壽有三個時間點最好:1.2020年閏四月(2020年為國曆4月23日至6月20日)。2.閏四月之前,但別晚過國曆6月20日。3.父母親的生日之前。添壽宜早不宜晚,如果父母親的生日在閏月前,第二個好時機是在爸媽的生日時一起送豬腳麵線,祝壽兼添壽。最晚則不要超過閏月最後一天國曆6月20日,晚送就沒意義了。

現在人生活忙碌,沒時間守在爐火前慢慢燉豬腳,所以在外買現成的豬腳麵線也可以。另外豬腳購買的部位也有學問,但現在都以方便為主,不同部位有不同意涵:1.父母健在:一前腳一後腳,或是兩隻前腳。2.父母只剩一方:前腳一隻。3.長輩是素食者:如果父母茹素,也可以用素豬腳,另外,坊間有豬腳造型的鳳梨酥和果凍,也可以換換口味喔!

「呷麵線添福壽,呷豬腳增勇健。」現代人生活忙碌,尤其在外地成家的女兒,平常難以在膝前盡孝,所以會趁著這時間陪父母好好吃頓飯,除了豬腳麵線外,有人還會用紅包和金子。親自回家與父母團聚,最有孝心,父母親應該是最高興的。

(本文作者為社團法人台中市名門命理教育協會創會理事長楊登嵙教授)

玉 女
jaz.tnn@gmail.com

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