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個頭高低與婚姻成敗無關 美滿婚姻靠努力

Posted On By 廖 宥婷

【記者廖宥婷/桃園報導】

在許多尋求姻緣的「短腿族」心中,總認為如果能長高一點,就容易有好姻緣,不過,最近幾位超過185公分男生以及176公分以上女生,卻焦急找不到另一半,尤其讓資深社工訝異的是,「高高配」似乎不靈光,一位191公分的男生坦言,自己跑受身高買不到衣褲床鋪之苦,如果找個「高個兒」另一半,下一代會比自己更慘,他的話一出口,讓身高171公分的徐乃義主任作勢想「捶他」!
端午連假,除了「報復性休假」,也有不少未婚或失偶男女「反撲式找對象」,中壢區美滿服務中心出現一波波回鄉過節的未婚男女,有的是同事相伴,也有父母作陪,更多是單槍匹馬希望找對象,希望即將到來的中秋節不用高唱「我甘願孤單」。

四位在科學園區上班的高個男生,身高分別由187到194公分,194公分的工程師告訴中壢區美滿服務中心主任徐乃義,在國外留學時,不少美籍女生身高在185以上,但因為總覺得白人有優越感,所以沒有深交;另一位191公分的男生則認為自己長得高,念書時總覺得鶴立雞群很不自在,加上平時日常生活很不方便,搭公車時都不知道腳要怎麼擺放,直到出社會訂製專用床,才感受雙腳伸直的放鬆,但冬天蓋棉被也是很不方便,他不知道父親身高169,母親154,他為什麼會191公分?如果「高高配」,下一代將如何?
徐乃義告訴他們,有位身高178的女老師,不知四人意願如何,沒料到四人異口同聲說,「免了吧」,不希望「高高配」!

在桃園市擔任國中組長的172公分女老師和另一位178公分體育女老師,也告訴徐乃義,只要男生幽默,品行好,工作正常,她們可以接受比自己少5至10公分男生,只是,不少男生不敢「高攀」。

不過,一位身高172公分,在知名交通事業擔任專員的碩士男生,卻要求徐乃義安排身高169公分以上女生,只是他的魅力似乎不足,仍然「摃龜」中。
徐乃義回憶早期一位長庚大學身高178女生和身高193公分弟弟,姊弟也希望另一半不要找高個兒,因為「巨人家庭」不好玩,幾經思考,認將來的另一半不一定非「男高女低」,女生還調皮的說,有些較高壯的高個兒男生還有手腳笨重之嫌哩!
徐乃義主表示:個子高低可能會造成第一印象,但個頭高低與婚姻成敗無關,有自信,成熟,準備好結婚,外在因素只是一項,不是唯一。◇

廖 宥婷

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